Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & 4x & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 6x^2 & 3x & -9 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & 4x & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -6x^2 & -3x & 9 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & 4x & -9 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -6x^2 & -3x & 9 \\ \hline & 5x^2 & 7x & -18 \end{array} $$