Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & & 4r^2 & -4r & -8 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 9r^3 & -5r^2 & -9r & 7 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & & 4r^2 & -4r & -8 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -9r^3 & 5r^2 & 9r & -7 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & & 4r^2 & -4r & -8 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -9r^3 & 5r^2 & 9r & -7 \\ \hline & 9r^3 & -r^2 & -13r & -1 \end{array} $$