Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & -3x & 3 \\ \color{red}{ - } & x^2 & -9x & 6 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & -3x & 3 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -x^2 & 9x & -6 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrr} & -x^2 & -3x & 3 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -x^2 & 9x & -6 \\ \hline & & -12x & 9 \end{array} $$