Step 1: Write second polynomial below the first one. Making sure like terms are lined up.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & -4m^3 & & -2m & -1 \\ \color{red}{ - } & -5m^3 & 4m^2 & & 9 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 2: Change ALL the signs in the second row.
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & -4m^3 & & -2m & -1 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 5m^3 & -4m^2 & & -9 \\ \hline \end{array} $$Step 3: Combine like terms (add each column):
$$ \begin{array}{lrrrr} & -4m^3 & & -2m & -1 \\ \color{red}{ - } & 5m^3 & -4m^2 & & -9 \\ \hline & -9m^3 & 4m^2 & -2m & 8 \end{array} $$